Having a husband or wife is a dream for any normal human being. With family, the path to devotion more wide open. With married then we have perfected this religion half. It is certainly very good news. As the hadeeth of Anas bin Malik radhiyallahu'anhu:
"If a person is married, then he has perfected the half of his religion. Therefore, keep your duty to Allah in the other half. "[HR. Al Bayhaqi]
One important goal is married is lower his gaze. After getting married, a man or woman would be easier to subdue a view of things that are forbidden in Islam. Because there has been a partner and kosher place to satisfy his desire.
However, although it has permitted it turns out there are several sex is forbidden for couples in Islam. Every muslim should avoid this. This is the sexual relationship which is prohibited in Islam:
1. Anal Sex
Sexual relationship which is forbidden in Islam first is anal sex. Sexual intercourse from behind or intercourse with his wife in the anus or rectum. At the scholars have agreed that it is forbidden in Islam. Even God will curse for people who have anal sex, the threat shows keharamannya.
"Really accursed people who sex with his wife in their anus." [HR. Ahmad 2: 479]
The scholars around the priest four schools, Hanbali, Shafi'i, Hanafi and Maliki have agreed that anal sex is haram. Another hadith that explains not bolehnya sexual relationship is as follows:
"Whoever intercourse with a woman menstruation or intercourse with a woman in the anus, then he has Kufr against what was revealed to Muhammad sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam." [HR. Tirmidhi no. 135 and Ibn Majah no. 639]
And several other similar hadith provide strong threat for people who do anal sex. Having a husband and wife are lawful but not to touch through the rectum as the proposition that has been mentioned.
2. When the wife Haid
Sexual relationship which is forbidden in Islam other than anal sex is intercourse with his wife who is menstruating. Menstruation, also known as menstruation is a woman's monthly cycle where from genital bleeding.
Unlawful sexual intercourse with his wife in a state of menstruation. That is intercourse, if only making out intimate without intercourse then does nothing. The scholars have agreed with the marital relationship when menstruation is prohibited. As many arguments to explain it.
"Whoever intercourse with a woman menstruation or intercourse with a woman in the anus, or mendatangai shaman, he has Kufr against what was revealed to Muhammad sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam." [HR. Tirmidhi no. 135 and Ibn Majah no. 639]
Imam Shafi'i said that the perpetrators of the sexual intercourse to the wife who is menstruating then include large sin. Apart from the religious side is also forbidden, related to the wife when menstruating are also harmful to health.
Thus sexual relationship that is forbidden in Islam. Muslim families abstinence do this because there are many things that are permissible between husband and wife.
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